It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. She's really attractive, too. I constantly have to reprioritize my kid, work, other activities.

But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either. It's not impossible, just painful and unlikely. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here.
We have been married 2 years and have a 4 month old baby. The Church does not recognize homosexual marriage, and does not condone sexual activity outside of marriage. How am I certain. Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love.
The point is that he should ASK her if this is true for her. Pay for the first few dates. I am getting increasingly more resentful of the times I think he can choose us instead of residency. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. Eternity is a long time.